1) The oil filter backing off has nothing to do with the problems posted earlier in this thread. It is certainly a problem but is just one more problem, not the cause of the other.
2) Stop assuming that the factory boost gauge is accurate. It is not a measurment but a guess by the ecu from calculations it makes. It means nothing. Ignore it and concentrate on your aftermarket gauge.
3) Double check your install of the aftermarket gauge. Running under the wastegate pressure would be doubtful making me think you have pinched the signal line or just installed it wrong. Make sure you tapped for the pressure signal in the right line under the hood.
4) Boost leak test. Don't just look at the couplers and snug them up. Build a boost leak tester like found on
www.vfaq.com and use it.
5) Doesnt sound like you are hitting fuel cut. Sounds more like a short coming in your ignition system. Use the correct plugs (NGK BPR6ES) and gap them at .030".